Submitted by: H.L. Archer

Having the man you love tell you he does not want you anymore can be pretty devastating. It is even worse if you never saw it coming. You will be left feeling alone and rejected, but you will also feel anger and even the need for revenge. If you do feel the need for revenge, do not think that making him jealous by dating other men is the way to do it. This will just make your ex start dating too and it could end any chance of getting back together. The best way to get revenge is by making him regret the breakup. It might not seem possible right now, but you can actually bring him back begging.

When he broke up with you, your boyfriend was feeling pretty good about himself. Especially if he left you crying and pleading for him to change his mind. Since he dumped you, it might seem that you are the one that will have to beg him to love you again. But, you will never get him back as long as he thinks he has the upper hand. You have to take away his confidence and make him regret the breakup. When you can accomplish that, you will have the upper hand and he will be begging. To do that you have to get control of your emotions and think with your head and not your heart.

Once you are in control of your emotions, you can show him that you are not as heartbroken and devastated as he thinks you are. You have to put up a good front and show him that you are alright with the breakup and you are moving on. To do that you have to get out with your friends and have a good time. Take part in community activities and show him that you are not sitting at home waiting for him to call. It would be great if you could take a vacation or visit out of town relatives. The main thing is to drop off his radar for a few weeks and let him wonder what you are doing.

By not trying to get him back, you are making your ex confused. He was sure that you still loved him and would be trying every way possible to show him how much you need him. Now he is not so sure of himself and he is surprised to find that he is beginning to miss you. Many things will be going though his mind and he will wonder if he can get you back. When he reaches this stage, your ex boyfriend is ready for you to make him regret the breakup.

You know his habits and where he hangs out, so he should not be hard to find. Make yourself desirable by getting dressed in the outfit he always liked to see you wear and style your hair the way he always preferred. Now, go out and ‘accidentally’ run into him. Act surprised to see him and give him a big smile. Then tell him you are glad to see him because you have been wanting to thank him for the breakup. Add that you hope he has been having as great a time as you have and then tell him you have to go. This will not only make him regret the breakup, but it will bring him back begging.

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